My husband and I have been together for seven years, married for almost three. He has a child with another woman, whom she abandoned and is really crazy. She’s harassed me continually for several years including when I was pregnant with my now two year old daughter. She abandoned her son two years ago, and finally decided that she wants to be a mom again. She took us to court, admittedly abused the child and they gave her phone visitation daily at a certain time. In her response on her court papers she continually reported that her and my husband had an affair two years ago. When I saw the look on his face I knew it was true.
It had happened only once but it cuts me deep. I my trust is broken and I was stuck having to face this in a court room as she purposely drilled into the subject. Now I have to deal with her calling everyday. I feel resentful, upset and that he cheated on our whole family. I don’t know if I love him the same way I did. We’ve never had any real problems before and when this affair happened, we weren’t in a bad place. We were unhappy with our living situation but that’s it. Since then we bought a new house, we’re having fun, he even bought me a new suv. Makes me wonder if it was because he was feeling guilty. It did take him two years to fess up.
I don’t know what to do, yeah he feels horrible he broke my heart and stomped on it. I feel gross because I have needs and still want him, but he broke my trust and I cant give myself to him. I’m unhappy that I have to deal with the home wreaking cow everyday now. Any recommendations?
Ok then… here we go. First you must ask yourself a few vital questions.Can
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I agree totally with this- Of course he feels horrible. Why? Because he got fucking caught. Plain and simple.
And the rest of what you said too.
100% agree